Friday, August 31, 2012

Girls' night

A while back I bought a special coupon for night at the Claremont including parking, food and spa use. I was gonna take the kids to the pools but our summer was so jammed packed with fun I decided to use it just for me as a relaxing getaway.

But when the day came, today, I didn't want to go alone. So Michael and I decided that I would do girls night and he would stay with Parker.

We arrived about 5 and got an upgraded room. We went to pool which was empty. Hung out in hot tub. Had dinner, watched some tv, had room service desserts, and generally had a lovely time.

Tomorrow, back to the pool and then home for an extra long weekend.

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Eli's tooth

Random Thoughts

My after school enrichment programs that I set up are all filling up fast. Several filled up in two days and all have met their minimums. This gives me great pleasure as I was told by the nasty woman who did it last year that I couldn't get it done this fast, no one would sign up for Fridays, parents wouldn't pay that much, etc, etc.  Everything she said has been wrong.

We are walking to school these days with our neighbors and a couple other kids.  The kids seem to like it.  There is less time on the playground but since it's really the kindergarten playground, that's ok.

The girls are in separate classes this year for the first time and it seems to be going well.  The kids from the afternoon kindergarten who don't know them are just meeting them as people and not "the twins" which I really like.

I'm gonna take a ballet class next week.  It's an adult class at the kids studio.  I told the teacher I might start crying in the middle of it and walk out but she seemed to think it would all come right back like riding a bike.  But I'm thinking I've written a bike more recently than 30 years.

And speaking of "dancing", I'm going to teach a step class tomorrow for Bootcamp.  That actually does come right back. I teach it every 6 months to a year and it's like I never stopped when I do it.

Parker is doing well in piano lessons these days. In the past he has goofed off during the lesson, playing when she is talking or generally being dis respectful. I tried to talk with him about it many times, but he didn't change his behavior.  So I decided to try something else. I told him I would take away 20 of his chip (his poker chips he earns for doing stuff and then spends on other nonsense).  A 20 chip fine is a huge fine, but it worked and he's been great, focused, and interested during lessons since.

Parker has started soccer. The last time he did it he was 5 and he was terrible and cried during the class.  I vowed never to let him do it again.  So when he asked to sign up, I was really hesitant and reminded him of that, but let him do it.  He got on a team with all his friends and I told him he would probably be one of the worst because they had all been doing it for a while.  I also told the coach.  Turns out, he was great.  And he seemed to enjoy it more than any other kid.

Of the perks of being in charge of the enrichment classes is that I get my kids in any class I want.  So I'm having Miranda take an art class that is so popular it requires a lottery to get in.  Elizabeth is going to take Cheerleading so she can do her cartwheels and flips somewhere.  And Parker is going to take Chess. His pal Jack who beat him in the tournament by one game last year isn't going to take the class because the "competition isn't strong enough." I thought Parker would be bummed, but when he heard the news, he pumped his fist and said, "Yeah! I'm gonna win the tournament."  Cocky little shit.

The other day Miranda was standing in front of the mirror in the bathroom and she said, "I'm so happy these days I'm smiling all the time. I just love to smile."

Today, after school, I've got to take the kids to their reading assessments, then take the girls to ballet, then help run the swim team try outs, then go to the swim team meet and greet with the new coach and then take Parker to soccer.  So now, I'm just trying to relax...

Monday, August 27, 2012

Hula Hoop Contest

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Rings of power

Miranda asked if we could do a craft, and without much thought I suggested that we try to make jewelry out of duct tape. I made her a red ring with a little grey jewel and she was delighted. I then made one for Elizabeth. Elizabeth then used a stick-on blue gem to make hers extra fancy, and then Miranda put a green jewel on hers. Again, without thinking, I said, "That means Elizabeth's ring gives her power over the oceans, and Miranda's gives her power over the forests." There was a brief dispute over who would control the alligators, but they ran off to test their powers and have been doing so for over an hour. Parker got involved and made a bunch more rings, although I have not been briefed on what powers they deliver.

Saturday, August 25, 2012

Synthesizer

Rachel's brother gave Parker a synthesizer a few years ago, which was of great interest to him at the time, even though he couldn't play piano then. Same as with the drum machine I got him, he took a great deal of pleasure in changing the voice, and getting to know all the permutations.

For some reason it hasn't been set up since he started playing piano, but we set it up this morning, and he got sucked into it immediately. I like watching Parker when he's consumed with something, so I thought I'd get some video of it, and he was pretty much oblivious to my presence. I suspect he'll spend quite a bit of time playing around with this now that he has some piano skills, but we'll see. Rachel suggested putting it in his room, but I showed her this and asked her to imagine it at 6am.

My favorite part is around 3:35 where he's getting down into the more esoteric voices, and he says, "Juicy funk?"



Friday, August 24, 2012

Midnight Activities

The after school enrichment program that I put together opens for registration in 5 minutes.  I hope it all goes smoothly.

Lunch

Notice Elizabeth with the big kids.

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Volunteering

This morning I dropped the kids at school, walked up, hopped in the car and drove to the Fix Our Ferals spay neuter clinic in Richmond.  I stayed there, helping the RVT, knock out about 20 cats, and then went back to school to get the kids.

Fix our Ferals is a group that was started about 15-20 years ago. They used to have big spay neuter days fixing tons of cats and then releasing them.  Then I got involved and invited them to use our facility at the East Bay SPCA. I ran two Spay Neuter clinics so it just made sense that they use them when we weren't.  It was a good relationship and I was proud I made it happen.

It was fun to be back in the animal world again. I think 3 hours a week will be just enough. Michael thinks I won't last being just a lackey and I'll be re-organizing their process in a short time.  It did seem a bit unproductive, but I'm going to try to keep my mouth shut.    The woman I worked with knew everyone I had worked with too. Animal welfare is a very small world.

In addition to this volunteer gig, I'm also on three boards....Twins by the Bay (our twins club), Wildwood Parents Board (where I am in charge of the after school enrichment program and the room parents), and the Swim Team board (where I am in charge of volunteer tracking.)  I'm also a room parent, lunch duty lady, computer lab helper and a few other things.  I think I'll keep plenty busy, but we'll see.

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

First Day of School

First day of school today was pretty much as I expected.

Parker had a great time. Loved who he is sitting next to (Jack ZN). Enjoyed everything about the day which he could tell us in infinite detail.



Miranda said it was good and she liked her new friends, but also cried during lunch because she didn't "fit in".



Elizabeth said it was not so good, but couldn't really tell us why and then later changed her mind that it was ok.

After school, everyone melted down a bit. I sent Elizabeth to scream and cry about something in my room. She stayed there screaming and crying for about 10 minutes and then it was silent.  This is how I found her.  She stayed that way for 2 hours and then woke up as happy as can be.




Girls' Room

My friend Camille who re-designed Parker's room and the entry way, just finished doing the girls' room.

She, of course, has her own blog.  So here it is...

http://thevintiqueobject.blogspot.com/2012/08/client-work-twin-girls-room-finished.html

Shari is the best

Not only did she send Rachel home with a plate of baked goods after the party, but the leftover pizza dough she also sent is making for a perfect nothing planned for dinner dinner.

I made myself a calzone, which I will probably eat while the kids are still outside playing.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Sleepy

Sometimes you gotta fall asleep with the light on.

Monday, August 20, 2012

There were four in the bed...

All summer long, whenever I sleep in, the kids come into bed with me and snuggle, act goofy, and then get annoying.  I got some shots of it this morning.  Elizabeth was being a total spaz cracking everyone up.






Sunday, August 19, 2012

Dutch Oven Camping

I enjoy camping, except for all the parts of it that I hate. Aside from every trip being book-ended by having to set up and break down your camp, the thing that I've always hated about camping is the cooking and cleaning. We have a camp stove, and we've always cooked at camp much the same way we cook at home, and the end of each meal requires you to wash all your pots in cold water, and has always struck me as highly unsatisfactory.

So as part of an effort to improve the camping experience, I decided to bring a dutch oven, and focus on cooking simple one-pot meals. Dutch ovens are cast iron, and the clean-up is super simple, and actually calls for not using soap. So in the weeks before our trip, I entertained myself researching meals and equipment, and then on the trip I entertained myself putting it to use. Rachel was skeptical from the beginning, but she was swayed by the first forkful, and I'm completely sold that this is the only way to cook at a campsite.

Our first night I'd prepared spaghetti in advance, so I used the dutch oven to make a cobbler.  Empty two cans of peached into the pot, dump a box of cake mix on top, dot with butter, and 45 minutes later you've got a pot of sweet goodness, which Rachel deemed, "Very good."



The second night, in order to get Rachel fully on board, I cooked the ribs. They were simply as can be to cook, and turned out beautifully, very tender and juicy, and falling right off the bone. Rachel and Elizabeth ate most of the ribs between them, and would have had more if there'd been some. I don't seem to have collected a direct quote on the meal from Rachel, but three days later when we were playing what was your favorite part of the trip? in the car, she cited the Ribs as her favorite part.

The morning after Ribfest, we had left over baked potatoes, so I used them in the cowboy hash I made for breakfast. Cook up some bacon, mix it up with some frozen or leftover potatoes, cover it with eggs, cover that with cheese, and you've got a big pot of breakfasty goodness. Rachel is a great potato lover, and when saw this, she said, "it looks like the most delicious thing ever." And later she confirmed this assessment.



I'd cooked the first three meals over coals on the barbecue. All of the recipes specify how many coals beneath and how many up top, in fact, so rather than try to get tricky, that's how I did it. I got a charcoal chimney, and it was very easy to keep my dutch oven cooking.



On the third night, I wanted to cook over the fire, so I made chili. I'd gotten a nice tripod to hold the oven, and I'd gotten enough sense for the heat with the coals, so I spent the late afternoon building up a good the cooking fire, and getting my chili cooked up. It was a hot afternoon, but I had cold beer and a nice bit of shade among the rocks, and it was a really lovely afternoon. Later, it rained, and that made it even more fun.

I started with a pound of ground beef. I'd been tempted by the bison, but I wanted to maximize the chances that my kids would eat it, so I went with the safe choice. Grass fed organic, of course.



I set that aside when it was cooked and cooked up some onions, peppers, and garlic. As a handy travel tip, you should chop you're veggies ahead of time for ease, and double bag them, even though everything in your cooler will reek of onions the duration of the trip.



After that, I added back the beef, added a can of diced tomatoes and my chili spices, and then after a while I added a can of kidney beans. And I stirred from time to time, and stoked my fire, just like the cowboys used to do on the trail, you know. The coals from the fire were much hotter than the briquettes, and I had to raise the pot several times to reduce things to a high simmer.



And then, half an hour before we were ready to eat, I glopped two boxes of jiffy corn muffin mix onto the top of the simmering chili, and then put some coals on top so it would bake. I'd never done this, but I had faith in my sources from the internets.



The result was delicious, and well received by the whole family, except for Parker who begrudgingly ate 2/3rds of a hot dog. Rachel deemed it, "very good" and later remarked that she wished there'd been more.



Cleaning the dutch oven was a snap, by the way. When each meal was done, I simple scooped out any extra food, filled the pot with water, and put if back over the coals. I worked the chunky bits off with a spoon, and then after I dumped out the water I would just wipe up the inside with a couple of paper towels, and then give it a squirt of Pam.

I'd had a chicken and rice dished planned for the 4th night, but we were so beat from the day boating on the lake that we opted for burgers and fries in town, with ice cream afterwards for those with good sense and shave ice for the rest.

Lakeside Camping

We spent the week camping at Shaver Lake in the sierras just up from Fresno.  I'd developed a vision for idyllic lakeside camping, and used the internets to find a likely spot, and Shaver Lake rose to the top.  It's a hydroelectric dam, and the camp is run by PG&E, and it fit the bill all around.

They have an  old-school reservation system, which involved mailing in my requested spots, and then getting a call from Dorothy the reservation lady who informed me that none of them were available, and then spending 30 minutes on the phone with me talking about the different sites that were available.  She seemed like a nice lady, but I was unsatisfied with our spot, as it was not lakeside, so in the weeks before the trip, I called Dorothy to see if any lakeside spots had become available.  A week out she told me that she was allowed to give us one of their unreserved group spots, which was just up the hill from the lake and sounded like just the thing.

When we got there we discovered the most enormous and sprawling site we'd ever seen.  The camground itself was extremely cramped, with just a handful of lakeside sites being extremely nice, but the whole place was so tightly packed that everyone but us was living cheek to jowl with their neighbors, while we had endless room to stretch out.  It was ridiculous.

The lake was down a very steep hill from our campsite, and we spent the first morning swimming and sunning and exploring the rocky shore.  It was exactly what I'd hoped for.






There was a rocky island about 200 yards down the shoreline, and about 25 yards from shore, and I led two expeditions to get the kids over there, first with Parker and then with the girls. Miranda wasn't that interested, but I coaxed her there by telling her that locals called this Mermaid Island, as this was where the lake mermaids went to sun themselves. She didn't believe me, but she came along all the same.



And then the next day, because the local beachfront wasn't idyllic enough, we drove 10 minutes up the road to another beach that was even more idyllic, where we spent the day, and rented a kayak, and Parker played Star Wars games along the shore with a little boy who was there that day, and a family of ducks spent the day going up and down the shore in front of us. The Kayak was a good idea, and sounded like loads of fun, but I was glad when our 2 hours were up and I could have a nice rest on the beach.

And then, because that beachfront wasn't idyllic enough, the next day we rented a boat and visited every idyllic cove we could find, which was not at all difficult.


All in all, Shaver Lake delivered exactly the summertime frolic we were looking for.