Sunday, June 27, 2010

Trip with Miranda

A few weeks ago I decided that I was going to go on a short trip with Miranda. She and I are quite different and I thought spending some quality time alone together would be good for both of us. After thinking about a San Diego trip, I decided on going to Sacramento where there is a zoo, a fairytale land, an toddler amusement park and my friend Val would do just the trick.

I didn't give Miranda too many details, but she didn't need much to be excited about a special trip with mommy. She kept saying she was excited, but "would miss Elizabeth and Parker and Daddy very much."

We packed our bags, got some favorite DVDs (now officially part of a car trip) and drove off Saturday morning.



We arrived at Sacramento Zoo and it was hot. Val and her two year old son Elijah met us there and we wandered about for a while. Miranda was so happy. She was able to actually use the map to figure out what animals she wanted to see. She was in heaven when she got to feed the giraffes.






She really enjoyed the kangeroos too and laughed a lot at this photo.


It was a really nice zoo. Small, but filled with animals and other fun stuff for the kids to play on/with. The reptile house was a very favorite. She and Elijah were getting along great too.







After a quick train ride around the zoo, we took off for lunch with Val and then headed back to hotel.




We were on the 10th floor and Miranda immediately wanted to jump on the bed. After that was out of our system we went to the pool where the "hot" pool was a little too hot and the cold (regular) pool was a little too cold. But we enjoyed them both for a long while. Then we hung at the room a bit before going to Val's for dinner.








Luckily, Elijah is a big Dora fan, so they were both content to look at Dora books. Andre wasn't feeling well and Lawrence was entertaining him a bit. Dinner was delicious and then we went home.




As you can imagine, Miranda was tired. And she was almost asleep when the alarm in the next room went off and didn't stop. I had to call the front desk who came up and banged on the door for a long time before going in and turning it off. With bedtime now far away, I ordered some cake from room service and we both enjoyed it. Miranda watched some Curious George on tv and we both finally fell asleep.




The next day, we had breakfast at the hotel buffet (which is not complete without tiny box of frosted flakes-she only ate 3 bites of it), took a quick dip in the pool again and then headed off to Fairytale Town. It was 9am and already damn hot.







Fairytale Town was really cute, much cleaner and nicer than fairyland, and with more actually fairytales. The kids had a great time but Miranda was getting really hot. As we headed out, Miranda got her face and arm painted by a "princess". It was the best face painting I had ever seen. Really.












Because we hadn't had enough fun yet, we did a short stop at wunderland for some rides and a quick pony ride.







Then it was time to head home. Miranda plugged back into her dvds and I listed to talk radio.

It sure was different to be with just one kid. Slightly boring, but nice to be able to do whatever she wanted whenever she wanted. She was much more chatty on this trip than usual, but also the same in many ways. For example, she is incredibly slow getting out of the car normally. And she was on the trip. Having the other kids there made no difference in the amount of times I had to say, "ok, we can get out of the car now." She never seemed to be sad about her sister and brother at home. She just enjoyed her time and the attention she was getting. All in all a very good trip.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

A good day, followed by some screaming.

Took the kids to gymnastics camp this morning. Then headed to gym and did a bunch of laps again (26 to be specific). Then stopped at Trader Joes. Then picked up the kids. Met Ebba and family at the park and stayed there for 3 hours. The kids were all playing so well, we just couldn't leave. Pushing each other on the swings, playing hide and seek, playing tag with each other, and being generally cute.

Came home and the kids continued to play well while I straightened up. Made dinner and that was when the screaming started. Elizabeth (who still isn't quite ready to give up her nap) started demanding that I draw her a rainbow (all the kids were doing rainbows happily). I helped her, but when she said "she was tired of drawing and I needed to finish it", I refused. She didn't like that so much. She screamed pretty much until Michael came home when she tried to get him to finish it. Dinner was smooth, but when it came time for getting ready for bed, she lost it again. She did her screaming thing, jumping up and down, making wild animal sounds and generally being ridiculous. Michael put her in bed like that and went to read books with Miranda. I stayed with Elizabeth to calm her down and get her to sleep which took a whole 4 minutes. Poor girl.

Long days

Although nothing has really changed too much with the transition to summer vacation, the days feel longer to me than two weeks ago. Perhaps it is the fact that we have abandoned naps for the girls on most days and are spending much more time at home. Staying at home is exhausting to me, as I have mentioned before, but the kids just love it so. In my quest to be a "better" mom, I'm trying to just go with the flow and not plan so much stuff, which is like torture for me. Like today, we just have gymnastics camp for 2 hours and then nothing.

I would have thought that I would resort to putting on a dvd or roku more than in previous weeks, but in fact, the kids haven't watched any for a while. They haven't asked and I have suggested it. Interesting...

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Multi Media aka Hamster Torture

Art Stations

In yet another attempt to allow the kids to draw, cut, tape and color without leaving crap all over the house, I set up these little art stations for each of them. Although putting the cap back on pens is still a challenge, it is going pretty well and they are all happy with this current solution.



Good News. Bad News.

Good news:

Went to Berkeley YMCA today while kids were in camp. Thought I would practice swimming a bit. Easily swam 20 laps (that's 40 lengths to most of you!) before I had to go back to pick up the kids (it's a short camp). Considering I could only swim about 1 lap the same time last year, I was damn proud.

Bad news:

Got Jenna to come over tonight so I could meet up with old friend who is in town for the day. Cooked dinner and had it ready so I could fly out the door when she arrived. 15 minutes before that, Elizabeth is in hysterics (as she had been for the last couple hours). I finally felt her. Hot. 104 fever. Dinner canceled. Hung out with Elizabeth in back house while Jenna dealt with Miranda and Parker. 2 hours later meds must have kicked in, because she was fine.

Monday, June 21, 2010

Peas, Please

The kids were pretty damn excited to see the peas growing in their garden. They started snacking on them right then, and acting as if they were candy. They planted two different kinds and both are doing well, which is more than I can say for the carrots.